law of attraction

  • How To Truly Surrender

    This will be the last blog that I write for a while.

    Whenever you feel like you have too much on your plate – whether it’s been dished up by you or other people – the time and space that you need to make miracles happen isn’t there anymore.

    A crucial part of manifesting is making space, and that applies to your schedule too. It’s especially true if you’re a creative. If you’re trying to create something beautiful in the form of art or words, it soon becomes impossible when your head is swirling with to-do lists and appointments.

    Your channel gets so clogged up that there’s no room for new ideas to come through.

    It can also make you so fixed on a certain path that you can’t surrender to where the Universe wants to lead you next. By being open; being willing to change; being prepared to end things even when they’ve been working well for you – that’s when you are truly surrendering to the possibility of being on your highest path.

    Instead of surrendering to other people, surrender to what YOU really want instead.

    Allow the Universe to sweep through your life and make any changes it wants to make. It will show you these through feelings, signs, and things which aren’t working or don’t feel good anymore. Allow yourself to make these changes by trusting that there’s always more to be revealed in the next phase.

    Allow yourself to have space in your schedule for what you really want to do.

    I also encourage you to have your own keyword for 2021 and mine is “no”.

    When you love yourself enough, that’s when you learn the power of saying no and surrendering to what you truly want at the cost of all the things you don’t.

    That will probably mean not replying to every DM, especially when you can sense that they’re soliciting ones hoping to attach to your energy. It will mean turning down meetings and offers for collaboration, if the payoff doesn’t feel worth the time you’ll be investing. Undoubtedly, it will mean your own desires, wishes and energy becoming sovereign 👑

    Allow yourself to be led by your heart and your desires.

    Allow yourself space for inspiration and guidance by tuning out the noise.

    Allow the Universe to lead you, knowing that life is an ongoing path and that by standing still you will never know what’s next.

     

     

    Ask yourself these questions – they’re good ones to journal on next time you’re setting intentions:

    • What am I actually meant to be doing right now?
    • What has served its time in my life?
    • What is next for me?
    • What do I need to make space for?
    • What do I need to start saying “no” to?

    By knowing these answers, you can realign yourself with what you’re meant to be doing instead of just what you should be doing.

    No one else but you owns your life or knows what you want from your time on this Earth.

    Trust the magical possibility that everything you want can actually come true for you, as long as you’re willing to surrender and say “no” to everything which isn’t it… ✨

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  • How To Know If You Have A Past Life Connection With Someone

    If you believe that we live many times over – in different lifetimes with different bodies – then you probably feel like you’ve met people again in this life who you’ve known before.

    Our soul holds energetic memories from different times and realities, but we experience amnesia when we are born into a new body. In the same way that we can’t remember things from when we were young children, we also don’t remember things from our past lives. We’re blocked from those memories so that they don’t take our attention away from the path that we need to walk and the lessons that we need to learn in this lifetime.

     

     

    However, many people have still accessed information from their past lives. For example, in my most recent life, I was a 17-year-old Vietnamese boy soldier in the Vietnam War. I abandoned my troop because they wouldn’t listen to my intuitive knowledge that our plan was going to fail; I ran away on my own, I was right, and they were all killed while I survived.

    After telling this to my friend Rachel Alyce, she said that she’d also been in the Vietnam War in her last life too. Even if you don’t have this kind of evidence and you’ve never had a past life reading, there are multiple ways to know if you’ve had a past life connection with someone.

    If there’s someone in mind that you’re wondering about, do any of these resonate?


    ⋆☽  You’re instantly, inexplicably drawn to them…  ☾⋆


    Have you ever felt so strongly drawn to someone, but you can’t quite put your finger on why?

    This is different from attraction in the usual sense, because it’s usually not romantically motivated. There is just something intriguing and captivating about them that pulls you in. It’s not what happens with every other person that you meet…

    It’s a feeling of deep soul recognition that’s hard to put a name on because of that amnesia I talked about, but there’s a magnetism there; the recognition of this person meaning more to you than the stranger that they are when they first present themselves to you.

    If you have gone through lifetimes with them before, then it’s likely that they will have an important role when you meet them again. That’s why you’re drawn towards them – because you’re meant to meet them at this point on your journey!


    ⋆☽  You quickly get back into it…  ☾⋆


    Within hours or days, chatting with them just feels like catching up with an old friend. You can skip the niceties and show yourself to them fully far quicker than you would with anyone else.

    The normal period of time that it might take for you to become acquainted with someone dramatically shortens, and you can hop into a closely knit relationship far quicker than you do with most people that you meet.

    It’s almost like you’re stepping back into a relationship with them, rather than starting a new one.


    ⋆☽  There’s a strong sense of familiarity…  ☾⋆


    You already know things about them, and you can sense inherent parts of their personality.

    There’s a level of knowingness between you and a distinct feeling of soul resonance.

    The strongest way to know if you have had a past life connection with them is because you feel like you have known them before.


    ⋆☽  There may be anger & frustrations far beyond what can be explained in this lifetime…  ☾⋆


    As well as feeling like you have known them before, you may also feel like there’s an invisible hatchet that can’t be buried for some reason.

    There’s something that either one or both of you will not let go of, but it can’t necessarily be explained by what’s happened in this lifetime. Maybe your relationship in this life has been quite good but there’s a simmering layer of resentment there, like a grudge which one or both of you can’t let go of.

    This could be caused by a trauma that you had together in a past life which was far more dramatic than anything which has happened this time around, like them stealing your lover or even murdering you!

    When this is the case, you have been brought back together in this lifetime to try to resolve that trauma and close the karmic pattern of anger by showing each other forgiveness.


    ⋆☽  Or maybe, you can see synastry in your birth charts…  ☾⋆


    If you want to look further into your past life connection with someone, a good astrologer might be able to do this for you.

    It’s often the South Node in your chart/s which is the indicator of a past life connection, however, as with anything astrology related, there is so much more to it. As well as finding out if you’ve had a past life connection together, you might also be able to see what kind of connection it was, such as teacher-student, friendship, or parent-child.

    If you’ve just met someone and immediately you want to see their birth chart for this reason, then there’s no doubt about it: you have a past life connection!

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    As with everything, the most important tool that you have for discerning whether someone featured in one of your old lives is your intuition! You can feel that sense of connection and how it surpasses all of the other people that you meet on a daily basis.

    If you want to look into this further, then you can go for astrology synastry and past life readings, but these are obviously coming from other people – and YOU are the person who was in the relationship before…

    So, ask yourself: how do they make you feel?

    What seems different about the relationship that you have?

    And is there a deeper layer of connection there which can’t be explained in this lifetime?

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  • How To Ask The Universe For Something You Want

    You’re lost.

    You need help with something; some direction at least.

    You know that if the Universe would just give you a sign or some small hint that what you want is coming you’d find it so much easier to surrender and relax…

    I’ve been there! And the only way to move out of that place is to get so tight with the Universe that it knows what you’re thinking.

    This is possible when you get really, really good at asking the Universe for what you want.

    Here’s how I do it ↓

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    Gratitude is a high vibe request for more of the same, and when you want something that you’re enjoying to multiply – make sure you let the Universe know about it!

    That’s why I use the phrase: “Thank you, more please.” 🙏🏿✨

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    I first saw this technique in the Netflix series Styling Hollywood, because it’s exactly what the stars of the show (Jason Bolden and Adair Curtis) do!

    Let the Universe know what you love and what it should send you more of by being grateful and quickly thinking of this phrase. It takes no time to do, and when you’re already experiencing the vibration of the thing in that moment – you’re in the ideal state to receive.

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    Our power to visualise what we want can have a huge impact on our ability to bring it into reality!

    Creating a clear picture is like crafting your request. You can create a clear picture not only in your mind, but in the outside world too.

    Make a vision board, stick a magazine cutting on your fridge, or keep a picture of your next dream holiday destination on your desk. Does it get any easier to know what you want than actually being able to see it with your own eyes?

    Let the Universe know what you want by painting the scene in your mind or on paper.

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    You can ask the Universe for the things you want every morning in your journal or whenever you think of them by simply grabbing a pen and paper.

    It’s as easy as writing, “Please can you help me with…” or “I would love to have…”, and addressing it as a letter to the Universe.

    You never have to show anyone else, and you may rediscover what you’ve written years later only to see that it’s manifested around you! It’s such a special moment when that happens.

    Say what you want with words on paper, and watch them come to life.

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    This is the level of connection that you want to get to with the Universe: where you have a direct line to deliver your intentions.

    By being completely clear about your desires and not having any cross purposes where what you DO want is energetically clashing with something else that you DON’T want, you can unlock this line. For example, if you wanted to find love but you weren’t willing to give up any of your time or space anywhere else in your life for a relationship, your desire to keep life exactly as it is will counteract your desire for change.

    It’s having unmistakeable clarity and total trust in the Universe to bring you everything you truly want which is your free ticket for a speedy delivery service.

    When you get to a space where you’re vibrating at a high level energetically and clear of cross purposes like self-love issues and limiting beliefs, your intentions can quickly turn to gold.

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    Remember that you were made from the Universe and you are still part of it.

    By tapping back in to your connection, you can have an open energy discussion about what you want to create. You have that right and that ability.

    Your intentions have the potential to create magic in your life, and if you need help more help with this, keep an eye out for my upcoming online courses or ask me about my 1:1 Spiritual Coaching 🚀

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  • 5 Minutes To Set A Clear Intention

    Now that the issue has been off the shelves for a few weeks, I can share the piece that I wrote for Spirit & Destiny magazine with you!

    This is a guide to how you can manifest quickly and easily by getting clear on what you want…

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    “Did you know? Intentions are your direct line with the Universe…”


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    When setting your intentions, it’s important to remember that anything is possible.

    Don’t shy away from asking for what you want and love yourself enough to know that there’s no shame in wanting to improve your life. Find 5 minutes alone where you can focus and tune in to your intuition.

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    The most successful manifestations are born from the heart.

    Once you’re sat quietly in meditation, start to think about what would truly make you happy. What would light you up inside if it appeared in your life?

    Try not to get distracted by what you ‘should’ want or what other people would want for you, as it may be different from what your soul truly desires.

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    Writing is the easiest way to get clear on what you want as you can physically see your thoughts on a page.

    In your journal or on a piece of paper, write: “Dear Universe, I want…” and then end your request by expressing gratitude in advance.

    For example, “I gratefully receive everything on this page” or “Thank you Universe, with these words I create my desires”.

    You can also address this letter to your angels, spirit guides or any other being who will help you to bring this intention to life.

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    And that’s it!

    Super short, simple and easy – perfect when you only have a few minutes to begin a new manifestation, or reset one which just hasn’t been happening for you so far.


    Remember: Get clear so the Universe can hear…


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